dabs

Jul 5 2010

Learning through Others

1:48 AM  |  Life

Moved in with Andrew and Adam. Still not quite sure if this was a decision I wouldn’t regret, but it’s nice to be around people again, even though I do miss having the whole place to myself. Things are going alright and I really can’t say no to saving more than $200+ a month. At this stage of my life, I think saving up is still more important than living comfortably.

When it comes to relationship, I don’t really have much experience. But I certainly have seen many ups and downs of relationships from people around me throughout the years, as well as all the dramas that accompany them. It’s almost like I’ve learned so much about how to deal with relationships from seeing how others treat theirs. There’s a stereotype that Southern California people are more superficial and shallow, but from what I’ve experienced first hand so far, there are certainly more dramas up here. I despise greedy people who take what they have for granted and toy with others’ feelings. It’s like for some of us, we can’t even get one but they’re toying around with multiple.  You would think that people would get wiser as they live through life and learn from their past mistakes. Not really. Love, lust, feelings make everyone act like an illogical, hormone-charged teenager.

Do I still want a relationship? Very much so.